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* I meet many girls at home, why would I go all the way to Colombia to meet women?

* How does what you do different from the online dating services that I see?

* Are you saying that I can choose any girl that I want and marry her?
* How can I be absolutely sure that the girls are being 100% honest with me?
* You say an unlimited amount of girls, do you really mean unlimited?
* How is it possible for a man and woman who don’t speak each other’s language to find love and compatibility?
* I’m a shy guy, how do I know that I’m not going to waste my money by coming there only to strike out?
* Can you tell me what some of your male members are like? I don’t want to come there and feel out of place.
* What is your policy if I come there and am disappointed?
* What options do you have for payments?
* How long should I visit if I decide to come?
* You talk about a special chemistry with the girls at your agency, why would this be different from chemistry with girls where I live?

 

 

I meet many girls at home, why would I go all the way
to Colombia to meet women ?

 

If you look at dating and meeting girls as the end goal, then by all means stay at home and continue with your good success. Our goal is to introduce our members to each other not just for the purpose of dating, but for the purpose of eventual marriage. If you are interested in marrying a traditional girl, who is attractive, youthful, honest, and sweet, then we believe that this will be your best opportunity. Where else can you meet as many ladies who are as interested in you, as you are with them, in one place and time ?

 

How does what you do differ from the online dating services that I see?

 

What we do is different in almost every way. Most people are familiar with the concept of online dating. Pay a fee to use the database, send emails, wait for a response, and hopefully meet someone, somewhere, at some point in time. They are relatively inexpensive to use, can be fun, and are popular, but they are not very efficient if you are serious about meeting someone to have a meaningful relationship with.

Here's what we do. We are an international introduction service, and we do just that, we PERSONALLY introduce quality, marriage minded men from all over the world to our Colombian lady members here in Colombia. Although we utilize letter writing, email services, and other options, we don't sell names, email addresses, or phone numbers. We are not a database of profiles in which you navigate through and contact on your own. We are a hands on organization that personally brings people together to experience the chemistry and compatibility that is essential to a loving and long lasting relationship, as well as a helping hand to nurture your new relationship if you desire.

 

Is Colombia Dangerous?

 

Again, a good question that always comes up. Most people ask this question because they remember all the violence and destruction caused by the drug wars of the mid 80's to early 90's. At that time Colombia was certainly a dangerous place for a foreigner to visit. Since that time much has changed, the drug cartels exist but have been confined to the rural countryside mainly in the south, and the cities have been fortified and restored to civil, peaceful, productive areas. There are areas with high unemployment and limited opportunities for the the people who live, and there is bound to be some crime just as we see in our own inner cities and impoverished areas, but these are not the areas in which you will be visiting and staying. You will be in the north of Bogota which is a wealthy and secure area, rich in culture, nightlife, shopping, and entertainment. Your safety and well being is our top concern and is essential for our success. We have hosted thousands of foreign guests over the past eleven years and have never had a major incident. But you don't have to take our word for it, request a referral list and talk to the guys who have been here and you will see that .....Colombia is a great place to be .

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I've heard that some of these agencies are a scam, how do
I know that you are a legitimate company?

 

Sad to say it is true that some companies are less than honest and some are at best highly unprofessional, however there are several companies who deliver as promised, and these are generally the agencies that have been around for awhile and who have scores of satisfied customers that you can talk to. Caution and common sense are always advised, however I can assure you that there are several fine agencies throughout Latin America.

Our agency, Latin American Introductions has been in business for eleven consecutive years and enjoys a fine reputation with our clients, both male and female. Every lady that you see is an actual member here in our agency in Bogota, has signed up as a paid member, and had her photos taken with us at our facilities. We will be happy to refer a client list of members that you can contact, and of course we are always here to answer any questions or issues that you may have, either by email or by phone. One more thing to keep in mind is that you will be working with and visiting with us personally. We are not some entity somewhere in cyberspace, we are real people whom you will get to know quite well. You will see first hand how hard we will work on your behalf. Visit our ABOUT US page for more information.

 

What makes your agency different from the rest?

 

I can't speak in specifics about other agencies, but I can tell you that we have a philosophy that works well for us. We believe that if our members are happy and successful then we will be successful. We don't deny that we are a business and need to earn a profit, but we also understand that we are in the people business, and that people come first. We plan on being around for a long time and referrals (from both the men and ladies) are a huge part of our business. Plus I should add that we are a family run business, with two third of our staff comprised of family. This keeps both our business outlook and our operating procedures very consistent.

 

If I'm only interested in one girl, can I pay less for a membership?

 

We only have one price for membership. Once you are a member we will do whatever it takes to help you find the perfect girl for you. Sometimes it is with the first lady you meet and other times it may take quite a while, but either way our commitment is the same. And might I add that once you experience the thrill of finding the love of your life, no matter how long it takes, you will agree that the experience and the opportunity is worth much more than you have paid.

 

It looks that some of your ladies have been there a long time,
why haven they met someone yet?

 

There can be several reasons. But first let me say that all the ladies that you see on our members section are available, although some may be currently dating a member, but are not yet engaged.

Some girls are more motivated and forward about meeting the guys then others. They may send emails and make themselves more available than other ladies who may be more shy or who may be busier. I wouldn't read too much into these things because some of our most special ladies are shy or are being patient to meet a man in which they share a special chemistry and compatibility (which in the end is the most important thing). We have personal relationships with all of our lady members and can certainly communicate with them to learn about their dating status or how they feel about a male member.

The biggest reason that many of ladies have not become engaged and are still available is because the male client ratio to the female client ratio is about 10 to 1. The fact that it's easier for the ladies who live here to join, then the men who need to travel here, and incur a greater expense in both time and money, is what creates this situation. In the end, the numbers favor the guys, but we have seen ladies meet their perfect man after being with us for several years, and, in the end, all's well that ends well.

 

It seems that your prices are high, aren't there any less expensive
ways to meet a Latin girl?

 

Of course, there are many options. Some of them are free. But usually you get what you pay for.

Our goal is to get you the results that you want at a fair price, and we believe that we do that, and do it well. We also believe that we can not be all things to all people. Our services are ideal for the man who wants a full service agency that will personally introduce him to outstanding women, provide him with a comfortable and convenient facility, give him with necessary help and services, who will always be there to work hard on his behalf. To cut our prices would mean that we would have to cut our services, and we are not interested in doing that.

 

Are these women really looking for love or just a visa, how do
I know that they are sincere?

 

This is the question that always comes up, and rightfully so. The answer is, some are looking for love and some are looking for a visa. It's unrealistic to think that every girl is 100% honest and has only good intentions. Anyone who would promise this is not being honest themselves. The good news is that vast majority of the ladies in Colombia are good and honest girls, and they are looking for love. The women with less then honorable intentions are usually very easy to spot. Common sense always prevails, if you use clear headed observation, good and timely questions, and at times trust our judgment, then can easily sort things out. We have been at this a long time and can certainly help you out in this area, all you have to do is ask .

 

Does writing work? Should I write the girls first? Or should
I just show up and start meeting people.

 

There is no correct answer for everyone. Certainly introducing yourself and building a relationship through the written word is a great way to get started meeting the ladies, especially if you are not able to travel here in the near future. But it also has a potential downside. Often times a man and a women build quite a nice friendship and become quite fond of each other only to find upon first meeting that they lack a physical chemistry, however they shared many plans and emotions while writing each other and are unsure how to proceed. This situation is quite common and is in no way unusual, however it can be uncomfortable. My suggestion would be to write, be conversational and friendly, but try not to make any big or binding promises. Try to keep the deep emotional conversation until you are face to face. There is no substitute for meeting the ladies in person to find if the chemistry between the two of you is right for a long term relationship.

 

Why haven't I gotten much response?, I've written to many ladies.

 

The natural expectation for most guys is to expect each lady to eagerly read and respond to each and every email they receive, immediately. But the facts are that this very rarely (if ever ) happens. There are several reasons for this. First of all, very few ladies have a computer in their home, let alone reliable internet service. Most girls must go to an internet cafe and pay to send and receive mail. What we do for fun in the comfort of our homes is somewhat expensive and inconvenient for a lady in Colombia. (After a long hard day at work would you like to go to a store, stand and wait on a line, read and send emails while people are looking over your shoulder, to guys who may or may not be entertaining themselves, and then pay money, which is not as expendable in Colombia as it may be where you live ?) Yet, many ladies do respond and cheerfully exchange conversation with the hope that the man with whom they are writing is sincere. I would say that the best response that you should expect is about one out of three and only if you have a complete profile on file with a good quality photo so that the ladies can see that you're serious about conversing with them for the purpose of traveling to Bogota to meet them in person in the near future. The best advice that I can give is to be realistic about your responses. When you write, if you are sincere about visiting, indicate your plans and any specifics, and you should see better results. One good thing to remember is that although the response rate is low for email, the response rate for guys who visit here is over 90%.

Can my new wife come home with me right away?

 

There are several ways for your bride or fiancee to come to the United States, all of them involve obtaining a visa from the United States (or your home country). In some cases a lady may already have a visa for work or travel , but this is very rare. Usually you will need to apply for a fiancee visa. The process is not difficult, however it is also not instant. Usually it takes from 2 months up to 6 months depending on each individual case. But, I can assure you that it is worth the wait.

 

How many girls do you think will be attracted to me?

 

Well it is impossible to say. It depends on many factors. Looks, age, attitude and personality all factor into the equation. I can tell you that the Latina girls will value these attributes differently than what you are used to. It is fair to say that if you are a responsible, caring, and reliable person, many of these ladies will be attracted to you for these reasons alone. But understand that the normal processes of physical attraction and chemistry do exist as well. In the end, what matters most is that the girl who is right for you is attracted to you.

 

How much does looks, age and money matter to these girls?

 

Every girl is different. To a few, these matters greatly, to the majority of ladies these are to be considered but not necessarily the most important thing. As we have said so many times, chemistry is the basis and starting point for any lasting relationships, but that doesn't mean that chemistry is solely a function of looks, age and money. Most Colombian women associate fast cars, flashy guys, and extravagant lifestyles with men who are unfaithful and selfish. Unlike what you may be used to, this things will not impress most Colombian woman. They associate older men with maturity and stability, and they will be much more impressed by your generosity and inner qualities then the amount of money in your bank account . So expect to be judged by your character and values first, but it also wouldn't hurt to present yourself in all the best ways possible.

 

Can't I be just as successful by buying addressees and writing than
by coming to your agency?

 

We would never imply that coming here is the only way to find an exceptional lady. What we would stress however is that if you want to have the best opportunity in the least amount of time, with the most amount of help, then we don't know of any better way of making that happen than at our agency in Bogota. For most people it is necessary to meet several ladies and spend some time with them to determine if there is chemistry and mutual compatibility. Unlike letter writing, you are able to meet several women in a short period of time, in one location, which greatly increases your chances of success. Plus you have all the local know how and resources at your disposal 24\7 .... 365 days a year.

 

How can do you find the girls in your agency?

 

Many of the girls come from the referrals of our past and present members. We also from time to time are featured in local newspaper articles and television shows which brings a lot of ladies to the agency. I would like to point out that all of the ladies are screened paid members as are our male members.

 

How do you screen your girls?

 

We have several factors in our screening process. The first is our agency fee for our ladies. It is one of the highest we know of in Colombia and it immediately separates the ladies who are looking for a free ride from the serious minded girls who are willing to pay for our services. Secondly we do an actual check of their application information by calling their work and personal reference. The most important screening factor is the day to day interaction with our staff. We get to know the ladies pretty well and we also get feedback from our male clients. Any ladies who have proven to be undesirable are removed from our service.

 

What is the difference between your introduction agency and the
other companies I have seen that sell addresses and have big parties
with hundreds of girls?

 

Well, there are several differences. The first is that we have a "bricks and mortar" agency here in Bogota. We personally know every member of the agency unlike companies that recruit ladies from newspaper ads for big social events. The fact that we know every lady in our agency is very important to help you find exactly the kind of girl that you want to meet as well as to help us to know as much about the character of the girls as possible. By being a member here you have access to all the ladies email addresses and can write to as many ladies, as often as you wish. There is no need to purchase addresses, as an executive member, you have complete access to all the ladies email addresses, and can write each one if you desire. But what may be the most important difference is that we will work with you face to face on a very personal level, every step of the way, to give you the best opportunity to meet the perfect woman for you.

 

 
You say that you have personal relationships with every lady in your agency, what do you mean by that?

 

Every lady in our agency has visited our offices to fill out biographic information and to attend a photo shoot and video session which are present on her online profile. At least one member of our staff has interviewed and assisted each lady in this process so we are familiar with every girl, no exceptions. We say that we have personal relationships because we can and do personally contact the ladies by telephone for any number of different reasons, such as: to tell them that they have email waiting for them, to inquire if they would like to be introduced to a male member who is in town, to ask what their present dating status is, or to follow up on a date to see what her level of interest is with a new acquaintance. There can be any number of reasons to call and talk with the ladies but the most important thing is that we have communication and accountability with all of our lady members. Some of the ladies we know very well, others not as much, but we have the means to communicate and to find out what we need to know when we need to. We never place newspaper ads to attract ladies for parties, we don't accept absentee memberships, and we never accept a ladies application for membership until her biographic information is confirmed.

 

Why only Colombian Ladies?

 

We don't want to imply that only Colombian ladies would make great wives but we know for sure that they do. The Colombian culture is based on family and marriage and the girls here still hold onto those beliefs, unlike so many cultures in the world today. Besides being beautiful, educated, and interesting, the Colombian woman is very devoted and faithful. We call that the whole package. So if you want to travel all over the world and meet girls from every culture, that sounds like a fun thing to do, but if you want the whole package, then do what thousands of men have already done ........ come to Colombia.

 

There are many Latina ladies in the US, why can't I just
date one of them?

 

You absolutely can and we suggest you do so if you can. For the rest of you, who would like to meet, date, and marry a beautiful Latina, if there is no place in your neighborhood where you can meet as many beautiful ladies as it takes to meet your perfect match, then you should seriously consider coming to Bogota to visit us. We can't stress enough how effective it is to meet and get to know as many interested ladies as it takes to find the perfect relationship that is right for the both of you. And you will be meeting ladies from the moment that you arrive until you tell us that you don't want to meet any more. As soon as you can get here is how soon we can start you on your journey. You can have five dates tomorrow with five incredible women.... can you do that at home ?

 

Is marrying a Colombian girl as easy marrying a girl from my country?

 

If you consider working with the U.S. Immigration easy, then the answer is yes. But we are willing to bet this process is much easier than any divorce situation that you might find yourself in. Seriously, there are costs and paperwork necessary to bring your new wife to the U.S., but they are not anything too difficult, but at the same time they are not approved instantly. We provide services to handle the paperwork for you and to guide you every step of the way. Believe us and our married clients, it is worth it.

 

What are the costs involved in this whole process?

 

It is impossible to determine exactly how much it will cost each individual person. You need to consider several costs such as trips to Colombia, hotels, spending money, dating, dining out, immigration fees to the U.S. government, etc. Generally speaking, if traveling abroad on a vacation is not in your budget, then this process will not be for you. But the good news is that you will meet many spectacular ladies, have a great time traveling, learn a new culture, and most likely meet the girl who you will spend your life with. Let us also not forget that dating in the US is not inexpensive and it certainly doesn't hold the same prospects for success that you will have here.

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Do I need to speak Spanish or do the girls there speak English?

 

It's not necessary to speak Spanish, if it was we would have very few male members, however it is helpful. The facts are that very few of the girls speak fluent English but many of the girls in Bogota speak some English. The vast majority of our female members are college educated, and many have taken some English lessons in college. Sometimes it's enough to get by, sometimes not. Of course we understand this and we provide you with reliable translators as well as translation software for your more private conversations. We have been at this for 11 years and we have it pretty much down to a science.

 

Why are so many women willing to leave Colombia and their families ?

 

It is not so much that they want to leave Colombia, it's that most Colombian girls want to have a family with a devoted, caring husband. Although ladies from Colombia, like all ladies, would like to improve their financial station and have a sense of financial stability when they marry, this is not the overriding motivator. What the Latina women at our agency are looking for is something very rare and elusive in their country. They want a faithful, loving, considerate, and honest husband. A stable reliable center for themselves and their family. In Colombia and many parts of the Latin world, this is exactly what the man are not. It is considered to be unmanly to not have several girlfriends or to be overly concerned about your wife and family. This is what's called being "Machista", and it's a huge problem for most women in Latin America. North American and European men are considered to be good "Family men", and once a Colombiana decides that she will be your wife, she will be fiercely devoted to you and gladly live in your home country and be supportive.

 

Should I consider Russia or Asia?

 

There are so many reasons to come to Colombia: Bogota is only 3 hours from Miami, it is relatively inexpensive to travel here and you can make several trips per year if you wish. How easy is it going to Russia or the Orient three times a year? Colombian ladies share the same alphabet as we do and learn English much more easily. More importantly Colombian women come from a strong family culture but at the same time they have a modern life in Bogota and assimilate very easily to western life. The weather is always pleasant in Bogota, there are so many beautiful places to see and experience, plus the people of Colombia are some of the friendliest people in the world . It makes nothing but sense to visit Colombia first.

 

Which Is better. Parties or personal introductions?

 

They are both good, that's why we offer both. If you like dancing, socializing, and meeting a lot of woman at one time, nothing beats the parties. The ladies love nothing more than to teach guys how to salsa & merengue and to share the local customs. It's a great way to break the ice with the girls and to see their fun side. We guarantee that you'll have the time of your life. Coming down during a tour event is usually a good option for guys visiting for the first time or guys who are traveling alone, plus you can stay on for as long as you like after the events to spend some quality time with some of the ladies that you've met. Of course we also have personal introductions every day of the year. You're always welcome here and you can expect the same great service no matter what your preference is. Come visit anytime, we'll take good care of you.

 

How much are phone calls to Colombia?

 

The best way to call is by purchasing calling cards in the US specifically for calling Latin America. They range from 0.3 cents a minute to 0.8 cents a minute. Very reasonable.

 

Do you help with immigration?

 

Yes we do. When the time is right, we're ready to help make the process as smooth as possible for both you and your new bride, at a very competitive rate.

Are you saying that I can choose any girl that I want and marry her?

 

Not exactly, what we are saying is that you can choose to meet any girl that is a member of our agency. She of course has the option of accepting your invitation or not, however the chances are very good (about 90%) that if you are visiting here in Bogota and you have expressed an interest in meeting her, she will want to meet you. It is not unusual for a guy to meet 5 or more ladies in a day for several days in a row. As you can see this will lead to many opportunities to find a lady with whom you share a mutual attraction and a special chemistry with. It's the opportunity to meet many, marriage minded, quality ladies, that greatly expand your odds of meeting someone truly special.

How can I be absolutely sure that the girls are being 100% honest with me?

 

I don’t think that there is a way to be absolutely sure if anyone is 100% honest, but you can get reasonably close. Most guys figure out pretty quickly the difference between the sweet Latina that we all love and the Latin woman who is solely looking for an opportunity to use a man to get what she wants. We can surely point them out if you are unsure and we have many tried and true ways to determine a girls true motivation, all you need to do is ask. We have a personal relationship with all the ladies in our agency, if you feel that you would like our help in finding out more about her, let us know, we will be happy to help.

We would like to point out that it is normal in a new relationship to have some small doubts, however, the most sensible thing to do if you have serious questions about a woman’s veracity is to not continue with the relationship. There are far too many opportunities to meet a girl who is perfect for you, whom you do trust, than to continue with a relationship of mistrust, or deception.

 

You say an unlimited amount of girls , do you really mean unlimited ?

 

We certainly won’t put a limit on how many girls you can meet but the laws of time and human endurance will. We’ve had many men come down here vowing to meet EVERY GIRL in our agency only to humble themselves by proclaiming “ NO MAS”. We have aprox. 1200 ladies at any given time with new girls signing up weekly, as others become engaged and married. It’s a tall order to meet them all. For most men, when they meet the right one, that's it.

How is it possible for a man and woman who don’t speak each other’s language to find love and compatibility?

 

We don’t have the clinical analysis of how it happens but we see it happen time after time after time. Here's some thoughts that I have through observation. Maybe when it's not possible to express yourself verbally, it tends to make you demonstrate your qualities and to show more of your substance, which changes the dynamics of a relationship. Because of this I believe our members learn more about each other and have more patience with each other than they would in a typical dating scenario. Plus the fact that you know that the other person is motivated by the same goals (meeting a lifetime mate and having a loving and lasting relationship), has been proactive in reacting that goal (unlike a relationship of convenience), and is willing to overcome obstacles (learning a new language and culture), makes the foundation of the relationship stronger that it would have under domestic conditions. Many of us have been in relationships built on promises and destroyed by promises not kept. This temporary language barrier can actually help many couples avoid that pitfall. Yes it’s a little more work to overcome, but in the end it’s worth it.

The difference between the Colombian women that you will meet here and the women that you are accustomed to dating will be dramatic. You will find the ladies here to be very friendly, warm, enthusiastic, and open from the moment that you meet them. These very positive attitudes will transcend any language barrier and open the door to a much more balanced and harmonious relationship.

 

I’m a shy guy, how do I know that I’m not going to waste my money by coming there only to strike out?

 

This is the best situation that I can think of for a guy who considers himself to be shy. First of all, we take all of the anxiety of meeting someone new by personally introducing you to the ladies that you are interested in. There is no reason for you to approach anyone on your own if you prefer not to. In many cases, we are there to translate, so we can often help get the conversation going by asking the questions that you both want to discuss. And if you feel that you’ve met someone special and you would like to know how she feels about you, no problem, we’ll call her and find out. We don’t know of any better place where you can get the help and personal attention that you want and need, then in our agency. One extra bonus is that many Colombian ladies find shyness to be a very good quality in a man, unlike the “Machista” attitude that is so prevalent in the Colombian men. So take our word for it, if you’re a decent, honest, friendly, yet shy guy, you won’t be striking out here.

Can you tell me what some of your male members are like, I don’t want to come there and feel out of place?

 

Most of our male members are from the United States and Canada but we also have a fair amount of guys who visit from Europe. As far as their professions, we have seen them all. Multimillionaire CEOs, business owners, construction workers, policemen, truck drivers, accountants, doctors, teachers, engineers, just about everything. We have always witnessed great camaraderie amongst the men and have seen many good friendships start as a result of meeting here. We can guarantee you that you will not only feel comfortable here, you’re going to have a great time here .

 

What is your policy if I come there and am disappointed?

 

Our policy is that we will do everything possible to ensure that you are delighted with our agency and that you have the best experience possible. Not only are we personally interested in your success but we also understand that when you are happy, our advertising dollar will go a lot farther through referrals and good will. We want you to be 100 % satisfied, but if for some reason we can’t meet our goal of exceeding your expectations then we will be more than reasonable in compensating you.

We are so confident in our product and service that we often don't charge our clients until they have visited with us and have enjoyed their experience here. I don't know of any other introduction agency who does that.

What options do you have for payments?

 

We’re pretty flexible. Just give us a call, we’ll be happy to discuss the options with you.

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How long should I visit if I decide to come?

We like to suggest a minimum of ten days, the first five to meet the ladies of your choice and the next five to get better acquainted, however this is just a suggestion. We've had some guys stay for two days and others for two months. We've had many men who came with the intentions of staying for a short time only to change their minds once they got here. We'll accommodate you, no matter what you decide.

You talk about a special chemistry with the girls at your agency, why would this be different from chemistry with girls where I live ?

 

I would say that the answer is two fold. First, the Colombian women that you will meet are extraordinary. Their candor, charm, friendliness, enthusiasm, and warm demeanor is completely disarming. It’s almost impossible for me to overstate. We see so many guys who are just amazed by the attitude difference between the Colombian girls that they meet here and the girls that they have known previously. If you take a look at our testimonial section you will know what I mean.
Second is the circumstance in which you are both meeting. In a more typical setting you would usually be approaching a person of interest at a bar or nightclub or maybe even on a blind date, either way the mind set is usually to be guarded, but at the same time you want to impress your date so she will have an interest in seeing you again. Here, it's different. You will be personally introduced to a lady who wants to meet you, and who wants to know about you. She won’t be impressed with the type of car you drive, how big your house is, how fat your bank account is, or how many celebrities you know. She will want to know things about you as a person, such as your honesty, compassion, generosity, and sense of humor. Because of this most men open up in a way that they never would in a more typical encounter at home. This opens the door to a different type of chemistry that far exceeds the bonds of chemistry based solely on looks or superficial criteria. Plus, let me point out that you will be meeting several special ladies (an unlimited amount), so you won’t feel any pressure to create this chemistry, you will be in the fortunate situation of letting it happen. And when it does, you’ll know it.

 

 

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